Recently, I created a reaction video about the shocking incident where Sean “Diddy” Combs was caught on camera assaulting Cassie Ventura. This video, now embedded below, dives into this troubling event and discusses it from my unique perspective. While I help many people cultivate healthy, happy romantic relationships, I am also a certified violence prevention specialist and survivor. I educate people on the cycle of violence and the signs of healthy versus unhealthy relationships. You can read more about these signs and how to get help in this previous blog article. 

In this brief article, I want to address two new updates regarding this situation: Diddy’s apology video and Cassie’s response.

First, let’s talk about Diddy’s response. He released a video where he admits that he was in a dark place during the time of the assault. He mentions seeking help, counseling, and rehabilitation. However, what’s noticeably absent from his apology is a direct apology to Cassie. This omission might be for legal reasons, but in my opinion, it seems he only apologized after he got caught. Before this, he accused Cassie and other accusers of being money seekers and insisted that the truth would set him free.

You can watch Diddy’s response video here:

 

 

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A few days after Diddy’s apology, Cassie shared a powerful post on Instagram. In it, she emphasizes the importance of listening to victims when they report abuse and believing them the first time. Statistics show that most victims are telling the truth, and only a small percentage are not. While falsely accusing someone of abuse is not acceptable, neither is disregarding the experiences of true victims, leaving them to suffer in silence.

You can read Cassie’s response here:

 

 

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In my YouTube video, I shared my personal experience with domestic violence. Like many victims, I wasn’t believed by friends, family, or the law. The decisions I made to escape my abusive situation had severe consequences, impacting my children and causing immense pain and suffering. My hope is that by hearing Cassie’s story and seeing her bravery, or hearing a story like mine, those who are in the grips of a violent relationship will seek help.

 

 

Here are some resources that can help you:

 

As a violence prevention specialist and relationship coach, I am here to provide support and resources so you can find happiness and peace. Remember, you have a right to be safe and happy. Don’t let anyone dim your light.