My Story

Prior to starting my business, I was married and divorced (more than once), a survivor of domestic violence and sexual assault, and always looking for love for all the right reasons in the wrong places. Unwilling to let my past dictate my future, I learned to love myself, (wholly and completely), and eventually meet and marry the love of my life, whilst also using my extraordinary story to teach women and men how to create and sustain meaningful, healthy relationships that begin and end with SELF.

Collette Gee

Relationship Specialist, Author and the CEO and Founder of Finding Happily ™

Discover the transformative world of relationships with Collette Gee, your guide to love and lasting connections. Through dynamic seminars, empowering workshops, personalized coaching, and relationship enhancement trainings, Collette empowers both women and men to thrive in all aspects of relationships—romantic, familial, platonic, and professional.

As the acclaimed author of self-help books such as “Finding Happily… No Rules, No Frogs, and No Pretending,” and the creator of transformative workbooks like “The Forgiveness Process Workbook,” “The Gratitude Process Workbook,” and “The Affirmations Process Workbook,” Collette combines her wealth of knowledge with a passion for creating meaningful change.

A former psychiatric nurse, Collette holds certifications as a Violence Prevention Specialist, Leadership Development Facilitator, and in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Having impacted countless lives, she guides individuals toward pragmatic transformations that yield lasting results.

Collette’s mission is simple yet profound: to teach the art of loving harmoniously and successfully. Ready to embark on your journey to a happier, more fulfilling life? Connect with Collette on Instagram @findinghappily or take the first step towards a better you—tap the link and explore the transformative world of Finding Happily.

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TV/Podcast/Print

Your Breakup Bestie (Podcast) Finding Love Again After Divorce – Collette Gee

Ms. V. The Story Teller (Podcast) Online Dating OMG  & Online Dating Round Two. – Collette Gee

Dating Is Such A Drag (Podcast) Tips from a Breakup Coach on Calling it Quits & Starting Over – Collette Gee

Speaking and Communicating (Podcast) – How to Find Happiness Within Yourself – Collette Gee

The Afrocentrist (Podcast)“Happily Ever After is Not an Ending; It’s a Journey,” says Collette Gee

The Empowered Women’s (Podcast) – The Shocking TRUTH about Online Dating with Collette Gee

Let’s Have This Conversation (Podcast)Navigating the Modern Dating World

Single Mommy’s (Expert) Is Online Dating Safe?  Experts Share 7 Safety Tips

WGN 9 (TV Interview) Calling It Quits 

ABC To Tell The Truth (TV Game Show – Breakup Coach)Collette Gee As Herself

London Live (Interview)Collette Gee As Herself

TLC Network: Strange Love (Matchmaker)Little Women, Big Love

WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Ask Someone Out 

WikiHow (Co-Author)How to Make a Guy Come Talk You

WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Respond When Asked On A Date

WikiHow (Co-Author)How to Safely Meet A Guy Through Internet Dating

WikiHow (Co-Author)How to Ask Someone Out Online

WikiHow (Co-Author)How to Use Online Dating Safely

WikiHow (Co-Author) 3 Ways to React When A Guy Asks You Out

WikiHow (Co-Author)How to Ask a Friend Out On A Date

Her Campus (Interview)How to (Respectfully) Break Up With Your Partner

The Signal (Interview)Seniors Looking for Love In a Post Pandemic World

The Signal (Interview) ‘Tis the season for love, happiness and togetherness

The Truly Charming (Interview) Relationship Advice Series: Meet Collette Gee, Dating & Relationship Expert

Huffington PostAre You Still Using Tinder?  Snap Out of It!

Huffington Post – I’ve Discovered My Own Definition of Blackness

Huffington PostWhat to Expect When Dating A Single Mother

The Good Men ProjectHow to Get Rid of Dating Anxiety

Go Dates5 Dating Habits It’s Time to Ditch

Huffington PostAn Online Dating Primer For the Dial Up Generation

Huffington PostWe Need to Do More For Rape Survivors Beyond #MeToo

Your TangoHow to Know the Difference Between Healthy And Unhealthy Relationships

The Good Men Project7 Things Couples Should Consider Before Moving In Together 

National Coach Academy (Interview)- Holistic Coaching 

The Good Men ProjectHow to Get Rid of Dating Anxiety

Your Badass Journey (Podcast) – Focusing On Reciprocity 

Your Badass Journey (Podcast) – The Inner Journey to Happily Ever After

Alchemy For Life (Podcast) – Comfort Zone

Real Relationships (Podcast)Understanding Violent & Unhealthy Relationships

Conscious Couples (Podcast)Unrealistic Relationship Expectations 

Get Happy With Dr. Marissa Pei (Podcast) – What Does “I Love You” Really Mean?