Build Better Relationships With These Conscious Dating Techniques [video]

Are you ready to build better relationships with your dating prospects?  Let’s face it, 2020 has been an unusual year, particularly for singles looking to meet someone new.  People that were dating pre-COVID met prospects at pubs, restaurants or social events.  However, with all the lock downs, quarantines and social distancing, meeting quality matches has become much more challenging.  In this post I’ll show you 3 conscious dating techniques to build better relationships.

In fact:

The techniques I shared in this post (including the YouTube video below) helped me meet my husband.  So, let’s get into it.

Most people say that they want to build better relationships, but when you ask people what they really want from a romantic partner, they don’t have a clue.  Why?  Because they are not consciously dating.

When I talk about consciousness, I am not referring to someone that just woke up from a nap.  I am referring to being woke, as in your state of mind. It’s not enough to want to be in a relationship.  You have to be completely present and in the moment when it comes to your search for love.  Don’t sit around and wait for Mr. or Mrs. Right Now, and then expect them to fulfill your relationship fantasies.  Instead, if you want to build a better relationship, take the following conscious steps:

The first step in building a better relationship is to align yourself with your ideal mate.

Instead of leaving your love life to fate align yourself with the chore values and beliefs you seek in a partner.  When I talk about being aligned I am talking about being focused on who it is and what it is you want.  Don’t just settle for whoever or whatever comes along.

For instance if you have a craving for ice-cream, but you’re settling for chips because it’s the only snack available at the market, your craving for ice-cream will still be there.  However, if you do your homework and research places you can purchase the ice-cream you want, and perhaps you even call ahead to make they have what you want,  the chances of getting what you want increases.  This is called being in alignment.

The second step in building a better relationship is to create conscious goals.

Building better relationships also requires that you make clear and conscious relationship goals.  It’s not enough to say that you want to meet a great guy/gal.  You have to be clear about the what, where, why, when and who.

All too often people leave their love lives to fate, believing that somehow the right person is going to show up at the right time, and with very little effort on their part.  However, if you expect to meet a quality partner that meets your wants, needs and requirements, creating a conscious relationship goal is the only way that is going to happen.

Once you have taken the first step in building a better relationship do the following to create a conscious relationship goal:

• Let go of any fears or false expectations you have about dating and relationships.
• Create an action plan so that you get clear about what you want, and you have actionable steps you will take to get it.
• Stay positive and be grateful.

The third step to build a better relationships is to be aware of your environment.

While I believe you can meet your perfect partner anywhere, I also think your chances of meeting someone you like increases when you meet them doing something that aligns with your values.

When I met my husband several years ago it was doing something that I love.  We met while volunteering for a non-profit organization because we are both passionate about preventing domestic and sexual violence against women and children.  Perhaps I could have met my husband at a bar or a nightclub.  However, meeting him while doing something that aligns with my values gave me more insight as to who he was.

The same can be said for you.  Like I mentioned in the video, don’t expect to meet someone who does Qigong or Yoga in a biker bar.  I mean of course it’s possible, but it’s even more possible to meet someone who does Yoga at a Yoga studio — if Yoga is your thing.

If your objective is building better relationships, then I suggest you get conscious about about who and what you want.  It’s not enough to want to be in a happy healthy meaningful relationship, you have to take the necessary steps to make it happen.  Sure, you can get lucky and meet someone new.  Perhaps you meet dating prospects all of the time.  But are you meeting eligible matches or people you want to meet?

I’d love to hear from you,  about your thoughts on building a better relationship through conscious dating.  Be sure to hit me up and let me know which step from today’s post you are  going to use to help you build better relationships?

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