What Love Will Look Like This Holiday Season As we begin preparing for the holiday, many have asked me what love will look like this holiday season. I must admit upon entering into the year 2020 I never thought I would be discussing a plan for a COVID Christmas. However, after careful [...]
The Power of Forgiveness Over the past few weeks the power of forgiveness has been a hot topic of discussion in churches, social platforms and dinner tables across the globe. Since October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I wanted to talk about the power of forgiveness and how the forgiveness process can [...]
Trying to Find A Relationship Coach? Look Carefully! I read a post on Instagram that stated, "If a woman has to ask if she is in a healthy relationship, she probably is not." Now, as a relationship coach I read all kinds of things about love online. However, when I read this I was [...]
Online Dating Red Flags Due to the Covid-19 quarantine there are more singles opting to try online dating. However, not every person online dating is a candidate to date offline. If you’re trying online dating during the coronavirus, below are 3 red flags to look for before choosing a mate: Hurt People Hurt [...]
Photo by cottonbro from Pexels Turn Your Crisis Into An Opportunity These times of quarantine, "social distancing," and self-isolation are merely outward display of what many peoples lives are like normally. That is sad, but true. Similarly to the main character, Florentino Ariza, in Gabriel Garcia Marquez's classic novel, Love In The [...]
When you are ready for love, one of the hardest truths to face is accepting that your relationship failures were a reflection of your self-worth. For instance, my first husband was a physically, emotionally and mentally abusive person. And, while I didn't deserve to be abused, nor does anyone else, I knew I had [...]
Don't expect people to change for you. Change is a personal choice and either people want to change or they do not. That's not to say you have to put up with unwanted behaviors. Instead, if you don't like something someone you love is doing try a different approach. Ultimately, however you cannot make [...]
Is Casual Sex or Hookups In A Woman's Best Interest? Recently, I posted a question in my Facebook group that asked, "should women say yes or no to casual sex or hookups?" And, I was surprised by the number of people that thought sex without a commitment was a good idea. However, before I [...]
The Best Time Of The Year To Find Love Did you know that the best time to find love is right after New Year’s Day? While many people think summer is prime dating season, the truth is that winter—particularly January—offers the greatest opportunities to meet someone special. Why? During the colder months, [...]
Are You Happy Now? A question I've been asking myself. I’ve also been thinking a lot about some of the regrets I have, and the mistakes I’ve made. On a conscious level I appreciate that my past is in the past. However, I cannot help but to think about some the choices I’ve made [...]
