Can You Win An Ex Back? Yes, And Here’s How

One of the most asked questions surrounding dating and relationships on the Internet is can you win an ex back after a relationship has ended?  And, the answer is yes!  Permitted your ex has not set any strict boundaries that prevents you from not contacting them.  If your ex has asked you not to contact them, and made it clear they no longer want to be with you, you will not be able to win your ex back.

Just to be clear, and for the sake of this post, you cannot win a person’s love or affection.  A human being is not a prize or an object to be won. However, you can gain a person’s favor, if in fact that is something they choose to give to you.  So, let’s get on with it!

Can You Win Back An Ex?

So, how can you win an ex back after a breakup?  The answer is through language!  And, no, not language as in your ability to speak French or Spanish.  But, rather the communication style you speak when you’re not necessarily saying a word.  The language you speak is not solely based on what comes out of your mouth.  Language also includes your body language, how you listen and your perception.  Therefore, how you communicate is based on a series of conventional and non-conventional methods of communication.

In a romantic relationship you either selected your partner because of what you saw, felt or heard.  Therefore, in order to win your ex back you must be able to convey the love language they connected with when you first met them.  In my Find Your Happily Dating Courses I talk talk about how to communicate, recognize body language and how to flirt.  All of these skills will help you reconnect with your partner.  Check out my Free Training Webinar to learn more about my online courses.

How Can You Win An Ex Back In a Nutshell?

In short, if you understand your personal language and how your ex perceives you, it’s easier for you to reestablish rapport with your ex.  Yes, it would be helpful to understand which love language your ex speaks.  However, you can figure this out simply learning how to communicate, and recognize his/her body language so that you know what they are saying when they are not saying a word.  Why?  Because how you perceive yourself projects who your partner sees and vice versa.  

Breakups are hard because a breakup is a loss and let’s face it, losses hurt.  It’s especially hard when you meet someone you really like and then for reasons either known or unknown, they break up with you.  The only way to know whether you can win your ex back or not is to first understand your personality.  Once you understand who you perceive that you are you will be able to understand who your partner perceives you are.  This does not mean that once you understand your personality that you should go out there and try to change who you are.  Instead, once you understand how others see you, you can learn to communicate in their language in order to establish a connection.

I’d love to hear from you on this subject.  Have you ever tried to win your ex back?  If so, how did it work out?

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