My Story
I’m Collette Gee, and my mission is to help people create healthier, more meaningful love in their lives. Like many of my clients, I once wrestled with the “why’s” of love—why relationships end, why soulmates feel elusive, and how to move forward after heartbreak. What I’ve learned is that real love isn’t about fairy tales—it’s about the choices we make every day.
Much like a personal trainer creates an action plan for your health, I guide clients in building a relationship action plan. Together, we take it step by step—healing old patterns, building trust, and opening the door to lasting love.
Collette Gee
Relationship Specialist, Author and Coach
With a background in psychiatric nursing and certifications in NLP, violence prevention, and leadership development, I bring both compassion and practical tools to my work. My insights have been featured on CNN, ABC, TLC, WGN, and other national and international platforms. But beyond the titles, I’m also a happily married woman who loves to travel, paint, and write stories for books and screen.
For me, Finding Happily is more than a business—it’s a belief: that everyone deserves to create love and a life that feels authentic, even after “I do.” Through coaching, books, and workshops, I’m here to walk beside you, offering support as you build a relationship rooted in trust, self-love, and joy. If you’re curious about how coaching works, learn more about my programs here ↗️
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TV/Podcast/Print
CNN (Expert) – Cassie Ventura is Not Letting Victim Shaming Stop Her From Sharing Her Difficult Story, by Lisa Respers France
Your Breakup Bestie (Podcast) Finding Love Again After Divorce – Collette Gee
Ms. V. The Story Teller (Podcast) Online Dating OMG & Online Dating Round Two. – Collette Gee
Dating Is Such A Drag (Podcast) Tips from a Breakup Coach on Calling it Quits & Starting Over – Collette Gee
Speaking and Communicating (Podcast) – How to Find Happiness Within Yourself – Collette Gee
The Afrocentrist (Podcast) –“Happily Ever After is Not an Ending; It’s a Journey,” says Collette Gee
The Empowered Women’s (Podcast) – The Shocking TRUTH about Online Dating with Collette Gee
Let’s Have This Conversation (Podcast) – Navigating the Modern Dating World
Single Mommy’s (Expert) – Is Online Dating Safe? Experts Share 7 Safety Tips
WGN 9 (TV Interview) – Calling It Quits
ABC To Tell The Truth (TV Game Show – Breakup Coach) – Collette Gee As Herself
London Live (Interview) – Collette Gee As Herself
TLC Network: Strange Love (Matchmaker) – Little Women, Big Love
WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Ask Someone Out
WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Make a Guy Come Talk You
WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Respond When Asked On A Date
WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Safely Meet A Guy Through Internet Dating
WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Ask Someone Out Online
WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Use Online Dating Safely
WikiHow (Co-Author) – 3 Ways to React When A Guy Asks You Out
WikiHow (Co-Author) – How to Ask a Friend Out On A Date
Her Campus (Interview) – How to (Respectfully) Break Up With Your Partner
The Signal (Interview) – Seniors Looking for Love In a Post Pandemic World
The Signal (Interview) – ‘Tis the season for love, happiness and togetherness
The Truly Charming (Interview) – Relationship Advice Series: Meet Collette Gee, Dating & Relationship Expert
Huffington Post – Are You Still Using Tinder? Snap Out of It!
Huffington Post –– I’ve Discovered My Own Definition of Blackness
Huffington Post – What to Expect When Dating A Single Mother
The Good Men Project – How to Get Rid of Dating Anxiety
Go Dates – 5 Dating Habits It’s Time to Ditch
Huffington Post – An Online Dating Primer For the Dial Up Generation
Huffington Post – We Need to Do More For Rape Survivors Beyond #MeToo
Your Tango – How to Know the Difference Between Healthy And Unhealthy Relationships
The Good Men Project – 7 Things Couples Should Consider Before Moving In Together
National Coach Academy (Interview)- Holistic Coaching
The Good Men Project – How to Get Rid of Dating Anxiety
Your Badass Journey (Podcast) – Focusing On Reciprocity
Your Badass Journey (Podcast) – The Inner Journey to Happily Ever After
Alchemy For Life (Podcast) – Comfort Zone
Real Relationships (Podcast) – Understanding Violent & Unhealthy Relationships
Conscious Couples (Podcast) – Unrealistic Relationship Expectations
Get Happy With Dr. Marissa Pei (Podcast) – What Does “I Love You” Really Mean?